The Silent Signs of Perimenopause: How to Reclaim Hormonal Balance Naturally
Help! Are My Hormones Breaking Up with Me?
Understanding the Silent Shift of Perimenopause & How to Reclaim Balance—Naturally and Intentionally
You’re doing all the right things—eating clean, praying for peace, getting your steps in—and still... something feels off. You’re exhausted but can’t sleep. Your mood flips without warning. And your period? Playing hide-and-seek with your sanity. 😒
If you’ve found yourself rage-crying over kale or Googling, “Am I falling apart before 50?”—breathe. You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone.
What you’re experiencing is likely perimenopause—a silent shift that can feel like your body is staging a rebellion. But here’s the truth: you’re not broken. You’re being invited into a new rhythm.
At Leaves from the Tree of Life, we help women navigate this season with grace, science, and faith. Let’s unpack what’s really happening—and how to restore harmony between your brain, hormones, and peace of mind.
💥 The Hormone Plot Twist You Didn’t See Coming
Perimenopause can begin in your mid-30s or early 40s. It’s not a light switch—it’s more like a dimmer that flickers when your endocrine system is trying to adjust to new marching orders.
Your ovaries start dialing things down, and the adrenal glands try to fill in. The result? Metabolic chaos™—a domino effect where every system gets thrown off.
You start to feel the internal turbulence:
•Tired but wired.
•Brain fog that won’t quit.
•Periods that disappear, then return with drama.
•Emotions that flip like a light switch.
•Sleep that feels more like a nap than restoration.
And just when you seek help, someone says, “It’s just aging.”
No, ma’am. This isn’t just aging—it’s your body asking for a new level of care and awareness.
💡 Rebuilding from the Inside Out—The D.R.E.S.S. & A NEW START Framework
Your body wasn’t designed to fall apart—it’s designed to adapt. But it can only do that with proper inputs. That’s where the D.R.E.S.S.® framework (Diet, Rest, Exercise, Stress reduction, and Supplementation) meets the timeless wisdom of A NEW START (Air, Nutrition, Exercise, Water, Sunshine, Temperance, Activity, Rest, Trust).
•Start your mornings with deep breathing and exposure to natural light.
•Prioritize real, whole foods over restrictive diets.
•Hydrate deeply—your hormones need water to function.
•Move daily, but align with your energy (cycle-syncing helps).
•Build in rest, not just sleep—moments of stillness and recovery.
•Trust in God’s wisdom—peace is part of your healing.
These principles work together as a lifestyle—not a quick fix. You’re creating space for your body to reset and do what it was divinely designed to do.
🪻 Seed Cycling: Gentle but Powerful Hormonal Support
Sometimes the most elegant solutions are the simplest. Seed cycling involves rotating specific seeds throughout your cycle to nourish your hormones through food:
🫴🏾 Days 1–14 (Menstrual & Follicular Phase):
Flax and pumpkin seeds to support estrogen detox and balance.
🫴🏾 Days 15–28 (Ovulatory & Luteal Phase):
Sunflower and sesame seeds to support healthy progesterone levels and liver detoxification.
This practice aligns with your natural rhythm and supports balance without pushing or forcing. A simple, sacred act of nourishment.
🌿 Supplements That Support (Not Override)
Your body can heal, but sometimes it needs a little extra support. The key is choosing quality, professional-grade supplements that honor your physiology—not override it.
🌿 Magnesium (biOptimizers): calms the nervous system, supports sleep, and eases mood swings
🌿 Glutathione Complex (Quicksilver Scientific): antioxidant defense + detox power
🌿 Vitex (Chasteberry): encourages gentle progesterone support
🌿 FemGuard+Balance (Designs for Health): comprehensive formula for hormone balance during perimenopause
🌿 Dr. Shade’s Liver Sauce® (liver + hormone detox)
🌿 Ultra Binder® Sensitive (binds estrogen metabolites + toxins)
🌿 Methyl B-Complex (methylation + energy)
🌿 Vitamin C (stress + immune + detox)
Every woman is different. That’s why supplementation works best when guided by a practitioner who can customize your protocol based on labs and symptoms.
FUN FACT
Did you know perimenopause is basically puberty in reverse? 🌀
Just like in your teens, your brain is adapting to major hormonal shifts—except this time, you're wiser, bolder, and a whole lot less tolerant of nonsense. 😌💁🏾♀️
Memory lapses, mood swings, and even bursts of creativity are all signs your body is rewiring—not breaking down. You’re evolving, not unraveling.
🩺 Lab Testing: Stop Guessing—Start Testing
When you’re dealing with symptoms that don’t match your labs, it’s time to stop relying on outdated reference ranges and dig deeper.
Recommended testing includes:
DUTCH Complete or DUTCH Plus – for hormones and their metabolites
DUTCH Cycle Mapping – for irregular cycles or fertility concerns
Functional Blood Chemistry Analysis – for thyroid, insulin, iron, B12, and more
Mira Fertility Monitor, Natural Cycles App, or Flo App – for daily data you can track and trust
These tools create a map. With the right guide, you can finally see the full picture.
🌿 Hormone Replenishment: A Graceful Reset, Not Replacement
Let’s reframe the conversation around hormones. Your body isn’t failing. It’s asking to be replenished, not replaced.
That’s why I prefer the term:
✨ “Hormone Replenishment Support”
It’s about coming alongside your body with bio-identical hormone support—only when needed—and using the lowest effective dose, under proper supervision.
This is not a forever solution. It's a bridge—something we use to stabilize while addressing the root causes. But it must be guided by testing, not guesswork.
🫴🏾 You’re Not Breaking Down—You’re Being Rebuilt
This season isn’t meant to break you—it’s here to refine you. Your hormones are changing, but so is your capacity for wisdom, discernment, and divine stewardship of your health.
If you’re ready to stop surviving this shift and start living with clarity and intention—you're in the right place.
🔍 Ready to Get to the Root?
I offer 1:1 consultations that include lab testing, personalized protocols, and honest, faith-aligned support. Whether you need guidance with your cycle, stress, supplementation, or hormone replenishment—let’s map it out together.
🌿 Book your consultation here
Let’s nourish your design, restore your rhythm, and walk boldly into this next chapter—whole and well.
🧺 Cycle-Sync Seed Crackers
Two hormone-supportive variations: one for estrogen balance (follicular phase) and one for progesterone support (luteal phase)
🌓 Follicular Phase (Days 1–14)
Flax & Pumpkin Seed Crackers with Rosemary & Sea Salt
🫴🏾 This combo supports estrogen metabolism, gut health, and healthy detox pathways.
🛒 Ingredients:
1/2 cup ground flaxseeds 🌿
1/4 cup pumpkin seeds (lightly crushed)
1/4 cup almond flour
2 tbsp chia seeds
1 tsp dried rosemary
1/2 tsp garlic powder
1/2 tsp sea salt
1/3 cup warm water
1 tbsp olive oil 🫒
👩🏾🍳 Instructions:
Preheat oven to 325°F / 160°C. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
In a bowl, mix ground flax, pumpkin seeds, almond flour, chia, rosemary, garlic, and salt.
Stir in warm water and olive oil. Let sit 5–10 mins until it thickens.
Spread mixture onto parchment and flatten with a spatula or your hands until 1/8" thick.
Score into cracker shapes with a knife or pizza cutter.
Bake for 25–30 mins or until golden and crisp. Let cool completely before breaking apart.
🌿 Store in an airtight container up to 1 week.
🌕 Luteal Phase (Days 15–28)
Sunflower & Sesame Seed Crackers with Cumin & Turmeric
🫴🏾 This combo supports progesterone production, reduces inflammation, and helps ease PMS.
🛒 Ingredients:
1/2 cup sunflower seeds 🌻 (lightly ground or chopped)
1/4 cup sesame seeds
1/4 cup oat flour or ground rolled oats
2 tbsp ground flax
1/2 tsp turmeric
1/2 tsp cumin
Pinch of black pepper
1/2 tsp sea salt
1/3 cup water
1 tbsp coconut oil (melted)
👩🏾🍳 Instructions:
Preheat oven to 325°F / 160°C. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
In a bowl, mix sunflower seeds, sesame seeds, oat flour, flax, turmeric, cumin, pepper, and salt.
Add water and melted coconut oil. Mix well and let it sit 5–10 minutes.
Press mixture evenly onto your baking sheet and flatten thinly.
Score into crackers. Bake 25–30 minutes until golden and crisp.
Cool fully before snapping into pieces.
🌿 These are perfect paired with hummus, avocado, or a warming herbal tea.
💡 Cycle Snack Tip:
Eat the flax + pumpkin crackers in the first half of your cycle and switch to sunflower + sesame in the second half. Easy seed cycling—crunchy edition 😋
🌓 Follicular Phase Cracker (Flax + Pumpkin)
Flaxseeds – Supports estrogen balance and healthy detox 🩸
Pumpkin seeds – Rich in zinc & magnesium; supports ovulation and mood 🌿
Chia seeds – High in fiber and omega-3s; stabilizes blood sugar 💧
Almond flour – Provides protein, healthy fats, and vitamin E 💪🏾
Rosemary – Anti-inflammatory; supports liver detox and mental clarity 🧠
🌕 Luteal Phase Cracker (Sunflower + Sesame)
Sunflower seeds – Supports progesterone production; rich in vitamin E 🌻
Sesame seeds – Balances estrogen; high in calcium and iron 💫
Turmeric – Reduces inflammation and eases cramps 🔥
Cumin – Supports digestion and reduces bloating 🌬️
Black pepper – Boosts turmeric absorption and digestion 🌶️
Coconut oil – Hormone-supportive fats; antimicrobial 💛
🧠 1. Early Signs of Perimenopause & Hormonal Changes
North American Menopause Society (NAMS)
Provides clinical information on symptoms, hormonal fluctuations, and lifestyle interventions.
🔗 https://www.menopause.orgOffice on Women’s Health (U.S. Department of Health & Human Services)
Clear descriptions of perimenopause signs, hormone changes, and self-care options.
🔗 https://www.womenshealth.gov/menopause
🔬 2. Functional Testing & Metabolic Chaos™
Functional Diagnostic Nutrition® (FDN) – Metabolic Chaos™ Framework
Concept explaining how unresolved stressors cause downstream hormone dysfunction.
🔗 https://www.functionaldiagnosticnutrition.comPrecision Analytical – DUTCH Test
Gold standard for understanding hormonal metabolites and circadian hormone patterns.
🔗 https://dutchtest.comMira Fertility – At-home hormone tracking technology for estrogen, LH, and progesterone patterns.
🔗 https://www.miracare.com
🌱 3. Seed Cycling & Food-Based Hormone Support
Wellness Mama: Seed Cycling
Overview of how specific seeds support estrogen and progesterone throughout the cycle.
🔗 https://wellnessmama.com/health/seed-cycling/PubMed Study on Flaxseeds & Hormonal Regulation
“Flaxseed consumption reduces blood pressure and improves hormone balance.”
🔗 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23363991/
💊 4. Natural Supplements & Bio-Identical Hormone Replenishment
Quicksilver Scientific
High-quality, physician-grade detox and hormone support supplements.
🔗 https://www.quicksilverscientific.comDesigns for Health
Practitioner-trusted supplement line offering FemGuard+Balance and targeted endocrine support.
🔗 https://www.designsforhealth.comInstitute for Functional Medicine (IFM)
Functional perspectives on hormone balance, root cause testing, and HRT alternatives.
🔗 https://www.ifm.org
🧘🏾♀️ 5. Lifestyle Foundations (D.R.E.S.S. & A NEW START)
FDN D.R.E.S.S. for Health Success®
Framework guiding personalized healing through diet, rest, exercise, stress reduction, and supplementation.
🔗 https://www.functionaldiagnosticnutrition.comTrue Health Education – A NEW START
SDA-founded wellness principles adapted for modern application.
🔗 https://newstart.com/program/principles/
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